Tuesday 30 April 2013

DIFFICULTIES IN OUR LIFE DON'T COME TO DESTROY US,THEY ONLY HELP TO DISCOVER OUR HIDDEN POTENTIALS

DIFFICULTIES IN OUR LIFE DON'T COME TO DESTROY US,THEY ONLY HELP TO 
                              DISCOVER OUR HIDDEN POTENTIALS                                                          

There is a popular saying that,"THOUGH TIMES DON'T LAST BUT THOUGH PEOPLE DO".Why should you throw in the towel??You are more than what you  think you are.Always say to yourself i am the best and i have the power to beat the rest.Sincerely we saying this daily would help us stand tall and be positive in life.I would not be sincere if i say we would not be facing challenges in life.Life would never be smooth at the start,there must be difficulties!!!!you must know that the great men we have today faced one challenge or the other at one point of their lives.You must be ready to say to yourself no matter what happens,i must make it.The more we challenge our difficulties,the farther they would stay away from us.
  I  would like you to know that you got whatsoever you need to succeed.The more those challenges come,the more you discover the hidden potentials in you.Guys what this challenges don't want is you remaining STAGNANT.The journey of success does not require you staying in a spot!!!!You must continually move.If you cannot JUMP,RUN.If you cannot RUN,WALK.If you cannot WALK,CRAWL.You must continue to move at every point of your life so you would not be giving up.Guys the best way to embrace success and turn down difficulties is to move on and never give up.The more you move,the better you become and the more you discover your hidden potentials in life.Remember,you are not just the best but you are greater than the best.Move on ,stay strong, and never give up and with that you would live with happiness daily.Remember once more that," DIFFICULTIES IN OUR LIVES DON'T COME TO DESTROY US,THEY HELP TO DISCOVER OUR HIDDEN POTENTIALS"

Sunday 28 April 2013

APPLYING THE 7 PRINCIPLES OF THE EAGLE IS ANOTHER SUCCESS TRAIT.

        APPLYING THE 7 PRINCIPLES OF THE EAGLE IS ANOTHER SUCCESS TRAIT               




PRINCIPLE 1
Eagles fly alone at high altitude and not with sparrows or other small birds. No other bird can get to the height of the eagle. Stay away from sparrows and ravens. Eagles fly with Eagles

What is the lesson
here?

If you ever want to do something great in life, learn to be alone and when you are with people, share your time with people of same ambition and desires.
PRINCIPLE 2
Eagles have strong vision. They have the ability to focus on something up to five kilometers away. When an eagle sites his prey, he narrows his focus on it and set out to get it.
No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it.

Many obstacles will appear to distract you in life. Stay focused and never allow dissenting views and voices to deter you from your goals in life.

PRINCIPLE 3
Eagles do not eat dead
things. They feed only on fresh prey. Vultures eat dead animals, but eagles will not.

What is the import of
this principle to you?
Stale information will
never do you good. Update yourself regularly with fresh information from
reliable sources.
Research your subject
areas and use it for maximum benefit. Be careful with what you feed your eyes and ears with, especially in movies and on TV. Steer clear of
outdated and old information. Always do
your research well.

PRINCIPLE 4
Eagles love the storm.
When clouds gather, the
eagles get excited. The
eagle uses the storm’s wind to lift higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagles uses the raging storm to lift him above the
clouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to glide and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the leaves and branches of the trees.

We can use the storms
of life to rise to greater heights. Achievers relish
challenges and use them
profitably.

PRINCIPLE 5
The Eagle tests before trusting. When a female eagle meets a male and they want to mate, she flies down to earth with the male pursuing her and she
picks a twig. She flies
back into the air with the
male pursuing her.
Once she has reached a height high enough for her, she lets the twig fall to the ground and watches it as it falls. The male chases after the twig. The faster it falls, the faster he chases it. He has to catch it before it falls to the ground. He then brings it back to the female eagle.

The female eagle grabs the twig and flies to a higher altitude and then drops the twig for the male to chase. This goes on for hours, with the height increasing
until the female eagle is assured that the male eagle has mastered the art of catching the twig which shows commitment. Then and only then, will she allow him to mate with her.

Whether in private life
or in business, one should test commitment of people intended for partnership.

PRINCIPLE 6
When ready to lay eggs, the female and male eagle identify a place very high on a cliff where no predators can reach. The male flies to earth and picks thorns and lays them on the crevice of the cliff, then flies to earth again to collect twigs which he lays in the intended nest. He
flies back to earth and
picks thorns laying them on top of the twigs. He flies back to earth and picks soft grass to cover the thorns. When this first layering is
complete the male eagle
runs back to earth and
picks more thorns, lays them on the nest; runs
back to get grass it on
top of the thorns, then
plucks his feathers to
complete the nest. The
thorns on the outside of the nest protect it from
possible intruders. Both
male and female eagles
participate in raising the
eagle family. She lays
the eggs and protects them; he builds the nest and hunts. During the time of training the young ones to fly, the mother eagle throws the eaglets out of the nest. Because they are scared, they jump into the nest again.

Next, she throws them out and then takes off the soft layers of the nest, leaving the thorns bare. When the scared eaglets again jump into the nest, they are
pricked by thorns.
Shrieking and bleeding
they jump out again this
time wondering why the
mother and father who love them so much are
torturing them. Next,
mother eagle pushes
them off the cliff into
the air. As they shriek
in fear, father eagle flies out and catches them up on his back before they fall and brings them back to the
cliff. This goes on for sometime until they start flapping their wings. They get excited at this
newfound knowledge
that they can fly.

The preparation of the
nest teaches us to prepare for changes; The preparation for the family teaches us that active participation of both partners leads to success; The being pricked by the thorns tells us that sometimes being too comfortable where we are may result into our not experiencing life, not progressing and not learning at all. The thorns of life come to teach us that we need to grow, get out of the nest and live on. We may not know it but the seemingly comfortable and safe haven may have thorns.

The people who love us
do not let us languish in
sloth but push us hard to
grow and prosper. Even
in their seemingly bad
actions they have good intentions for us.

PRINCIPLE 7
When an Eagle grows
old, his feathers become
weak and cannot take him as fast as he should. When he feels weak and about to die, he retires to a place
far away in the rocks.
While there, he plucks
out every feather on his
body until he is completely bare. He stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers, then he can come out.

We occasionally need to shed off old habits & items that burden us without adding to our lives.


Tuesday 23 April 2013

CUT THE ROPE AND SIMPLY TRUST IN GOD

                        CUT THE ROPE AND SIMPLY TRUST IN GOD                                                      
 

A mountain climber, desperate to conquer the Aconcagua, initiated his climb after years of preparation. But he wanted the glory to himself; therefore, he went up alone. He started climbing and it was becoming later and later. He did not prepare for camping but decided to keep on going. Soon it got dark . . . Night fell with heaviness at such high altitude and there was zero visibility. Everything was black, no moon, and the stars covered by clouds. As he was climbing a ridge at about 100 meters from the top, he slipped and fell. Falling rapidly he could only see blotches of darkness that passed in the same darkness and a terrible sensation of being suctioned by gravity. He kept falling and in those anguishing moments’ good and bad memories passed through his mind. He thought he would die. Nevertheless, he felt a jolt that almost tore him in half. Like any good mountain climber he had staked himself with a long rope tied to his waist. In those moments of stillness, suspended in the air he had no other choice but to shout,"HELP ME GOD","HELP ME!" All of a sudden he heard a deep voice from heaven.

"What do you want me to do?”
"SAVE ME"

"Do you REALLY think that I can save you?"
"OF COURSE, MY GOD"
"Then cut the rope that is holding you up."
There was another moment of silence and stillness. The man held tighter to the rope and died before daybreak. The rescue team says that the next day they found, a frozen mountain climber hanging strongly to a rope TWO FEET off the ground...

Moral of the story
What about you? How trusting are you in that rope? Why don't you let it go? I tell you, God has great and marvellous things for you. CUT THE ROPE AND SIMPLY TRUST IN HIM.

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Monday 22 April 2013

15 THINGS YOU SHOULD GIVE UP TO BE HAPPY.

                                15 THINGS YOU SHOULD GIVE UP TO BE HAPPY.                                                 





I welcome you all to another great week and i just hope we would be joyous throughout the week.I  would clearly be saying that we deserve to be happy at every point of our lives and to stay happy we must be doing things that would make us stay happy at every point of our lives.I would be saying that you would be happy if you do the things i would be mentioning below and i just hope it would be of great help.
  • GIVE UP YOUR NEED TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT

Sincerely no matter how knowledgeable you are,you can`t know it all.You must always admit that you stand to be corrected at every point of time and that would always keep you happy.
  • GIVE UP NEED FOR CONTROL
It is something everybody wants,to be in control but yet  must we leave a space for you to be controlled sometimes.It gives us an opportunity to learn something new from someone else.
  • GIVE UP ON BLAME
I would be saying for an individual to be happy,he or she must be ready to take blames.Instead of  complaining, learn to always take blames and at the same time,find the best solution to that problem.
  • GIVE UP SELF DEFENDING SELF-TALK
Sincerely when in a middle of a talk with friends,don`t ever think you would ever be right in the mist of your friends.You should not be talking much but you should take time to listen and learn and gain from them.You should not be vocal trying to win a talk.
  • GIVE UP YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
Majority kill their success approach just because,they limit themselves.They would continually say,"I CAN`T DO IT".That is wrong!!!.You can get it,if you really want to.Stand up to say,I CAN DO IT.
  • GIVE UP COMPLAINING
Must you complain at every point of time?That should not be the case!!!.Learn to be a problem solver and not a complainer.The more you solve problems,the lesser time you would be using to complain.
  • GIVE UP THE LUXURY OF CRITICISM
Some people never see any good in people and that is why they would continue to criticize.Always learn to  appreciate people at every point of your life and with that you would stay happy.
  • GIVE UP NEED TO IMPRESS OTHERS
You are not living for anyone.A speaker once said to me that,"DON`T IMPRESS AND AT THE SAME TIME, GET DEPRESSED.You should live your life the best way you can to stay happy always.Don`t be under any pressure!!
  • GIVE UP RESISTANCE TO CHANGE
You must know that change is a constant thing.The more things change,the better things become.Learn to live with change and you would be happy.
  • GIVE UP LABELS
Titles are just there but the real you is what you have achieved.Be an addition to your community and not just stand on the titles that would not be helping in solving practical things.
  • GIVE UP ATTACHMENT

You should not be attaching anyone to yourself.Learn to always believe you can do it but that does not mean you should not be taking corrections.

  • GIVE UP EXCUSES
A writer once said that,"procrastination is not a killer of time but of destiny.Why the constant excuses?You should start whatsoever you want to start with what you have.Never at any point, complain.
  • GIVE UP THE PAST
If you continually blamer yourself for your past mistakes then you are not planing to let them go.It is now the new you that would not be doing anything of such again.Learn to forget such mistakes and help those who are presently in the shoes you were in.
  • GIVE UP LIVING YOUR LIFE TO OTHER PEOPLE`S EXPECTATION
The more you try to please others,the more you are under pressure to get a quick success that may end up not lasting.Don`t try to live the way people expect you but live the best way you can,taking one step at a time then with that you would be happy.
   I just hope you are empowered again today.guys a lovely day to you all today.

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Sunday 21 April 2013

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.

      LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.
A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.

They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE:
The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the
sand and now, you write on a stone, why?" The other friend replied "When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.

Friday 19 April 2013

THE MORE YOU BELIEVE IN GOD, THE BETTER CHANCE YOU HAVE OF ACHIEVING SUCCESS WITH EASE.

                                                                                                                       
THE MORE YOU BELIEVE IN GOD, THE BETTER CHANCE YOU HAVE OF ACHIEVING SUCCESS WITH EASE

I welcome you all to another day that we all are expecting all round joy and my prayer is that we would have no cause to be sad.sincerely i would`t be saying the plain truth if i say you can be anything outside God. Guys  we would just be struggling to get to the top if we think our head knowledge can help us achieve success. Guys there is a man up there that would never fail you or can never fail you.I don`t want to know the pains you are going through but one thing i can assure you is that if you to go God with an humble heart; he would solve all your problems for you.
    I want to assure you today that God is able to do all things. What you should know is that; you can give up on  GOD but God would never give up on you.Guys we should always go to God when we want to embark on anything asking him to lead us on.Sincerely leaning on God`s shoulders would make us climb that ladder of success with ease at every point of our lives. Hold on to God and with him you would have an outstanding success in all your endeavours in life. I just hope i have spoke to someone today.My bothers and sisters;God would do it when we want him to do it.I hope we would have a great day today.

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Wednesday 17 April 2013

THE FASTEST KILLER OF CAREER SUCCESS IN LIFE IS, IMPATIENCE.I welcome you all again to another great day that i am praying would bring forth good tidings for us by the special grace of GOD.Sincerely what matters in life if we want to see each other succeeding is if we help ourselves to climb the ladder of success and how can that be done??it is by we, telling ourselves the truth.I would be blunt to say to you that one can never be getting a worthwhile success immediately you kick off anything you want to do in life.Everything in life has a stage and you just have to pass through that stage before you would be succeeding.Lets look at the life of a world known footballer today,"LIONEL MESSI", he never became the world best footballer in just a day.I read through his life story and saw that he once served tea to people.What tea have you served??? or let me better say, What sacrifice have you paid to be successful?? The more you put in much hard determination to succeed,the more you should be patient as you await the success door to open. One thing i know is that things might not be good at the start of a thing,but the more you put more hardwork and patience there is an 100% assurance that you would get it right someday.We should learn to be patient at every point of our lives and am sure that with time everything wouldn't just be alright,but would be great and would be in our favour.Stand upright and keep fighting the battle and am sure that someday you would be the world's greatest in that thing you are doing.Remember patience should always be your key word at every point of time.I just hope i have empowered you guys again today.Email:Syrine22rules@gmail.com.


Tuesday 16 April 2013

YOUR POSITIVITY SHOULD ALWAYS SUPERCEDE YOUR NEGATIVITY(IT IS THEN YOU WOULD HOLD ON AND NEVER GIVE UP) I welcome you all to another great day that we all,are all expecting all round joy.I would be starting today's topic by clearly saying the more you are positive the better chance you have of getting things done easily(be hopeful and expectant). Sincerely the major reason why majority tend to fail is majorly because they allow their negative thoughts overide their positive thoughts.You must be ready today to be positive in every area of life to achieve success in every endeavour of yours. The entire water of the sea can't sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship.Similarly negativity of the world can't put you down unless you allow it to get inside you. I have made a decision to ever stay positive and that is why i am always striving to stay up and running beating my chest to say, i wouldn't be giving up on anything i am doing or striving to do since i know someday, i would stand and smile after my accomplishments. Guys in whatsoever thing you lay your hands on,you must be positive.Never stand at anytime to complain(Negative).Always find a way to solve whatsoever problem because there are many ways of you doing it.Instead of wasting your energy on negative thinking,transfer such energy to the application of wisdom(positive) to solve whatsoever problem or challenge that you are facing at any particular time.Start today by being positive at every point of time and i assure you,you would be a great fellow in life. EMAIL:Syrine22rules@gmail.com

Monday 15 April 2013

THE WORRIES OF TODAY COULD DESTROY A BETTER TOMORROW.BE CALM!! At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky. The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama. The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers andthrew it out of the restaurant. Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior? If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed? He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos. It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies. I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me. It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me. More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life. Lessons learnt from the story: I understood, I should not react in life. I should always respond. The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded. Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of, just and right to save a situation from going out of hands, to avoid taking decisions in anger or anxiety. I just hope you have been empowered again. EMAIL:Syrine22rules@gmail.com

Friday 12 April 2013

EVERY NEW DAY IS A NEW DAY FOR YOU TO CHANGE YOUS LIFE!! I Would be starting today's topic by saying, that the failures of yesterday is already a by gone.We should totally concentrate on making today and days to come a worthwhile one. Sincerely it shouldn't be expected that we make successes all the time,there should always be space for failng. Some people are so negative that it stinks..... You are the captain of your life, if u want to sink, others don't!!! It doesn't matter for how long the room has been dark; for a day, a week, or years. The moment you bring in a candle, darkness vanishes like it was never there. Similarly, it doesn't matter for how long we are stuck in a sense of our limitations. The moment you decide to break free, nothing will stop you. Search it out you have it in you whatsoever you require to stand up right and constantly say to yourself i can do it!!! What matters most in life is the success you have achieved and not the number of times you have tried and failed. STAND TALL AND BREAK ALL LIMITATIONS TODAY. I just hope i have empowered you as a youth again today. Email: Syrine22rules@gmail.com.

EVERY NEW DAY IS A NEW DAY FOR YOU TO CHANGE YOUS LIFE!! I Would be starting today's topic by saying, that the failures of yesterday is already a by gone.We should totally concentrate on making today and days to come a worthwhile one. Sincerely it shouldn't be expected that we make successes all the time,there should always be space for failng. Some people are so negative that it stinks..... You are the captain of your life, if u want to sink, others don't!!! It doesn't matter for how long the room has been dark; for a day, a week, or years. The moment you bring in a candle, darkness vanishes like it was never there. Similarly, it doesn't matter for how long we are stuck in a sense of our limitations. The moment you decide to break free, nothing will stop you. Search it out you have it in you whatsoever you require to stand up right and constantly say to yourself i can do it!!! What matters most in life is the success you have achieved and not the number of times you have tried and failed. STAND TALL AND BREAK ALL LIMITATIONS TODAY. I just hope i have empowered you as a youth again today. Email: Syrine22rules@gmail.com.

EVERY NEW DAY IS A NEW DAY FOR YOU TO CHANGE YOUS LIFE!! I Would be starting today's topic by saying, that the failures of yesterday is already a by gone.We should totally concentrate on making today and days to come a worthwhile one. Sincerely it shouldn't be expected that we make successes all the time,there should always be space for failng. Some people are so negative that it stinks..... You are the captain of your life, if u want to sink, others don't!!! It doesn't matter for how long the room has been dark; for a day, a week, or years. The moment you bring in a candle, darkness vanishes like it was never there. Similarly, it doesn't matter for how long we are stuck in a sense of our limitations. The moment you decide to break free, nothing will stop you. Search it out you have it in you whatsoever you require to stand up right and constantly say to yourself i can do it!!! What matters most in life is the success you have achieved and not the number of times you have tried and failed. STAND TALL AND BREAK ALL LIMITATIONS TODAY. I just hope i have empowered you as a youth again today. Email: Syrine22rules@gmail.com.

Thursday 11 April 2013

THE REWARD OF ANY SUCCESS IN LIFE IS ,"WE NOT TAKING OUR LEGS OFF THE PEDAL". The first point i would be ironing out this morning is that there is no present condition that anyone is facing now, that someone hasn't faced before. We constantly ask ourselves, why me?,why am i not succeeding?, why am i getting everything wrong?, why is no one supporting me?...etc.This are the few questions we atimes have no answers to but sincerely there is an answer to it if we can dig deep and find the best way to get ourselves out of being easily frustrated. Sincerely getting our names in the history book of success isn't something we would be taking like a pinch of salt,it requires our full dedication,observation and peseverance. There was once a man who goes by the name Isaac Newton( the originator/inventor of Electricity today) he tried inventing it a hundred times and failed ninety nine times meaning he got it right at the final try.What if he had given up?,would he be what he is today or would his name by well known today??? The challenges we facing at the start of a thing would never be up to the enjoyment we would be getting at the end of that thing.The More the challenges raises its head the more we should put a force on its pedal in solving it.We should never at any point think of giving up on anything so that we wouldn't be tagged a failure. Sincerely getting to the top is a step by step thing and with time we would surely forget all the pains and stress we went through while trying to. I just hope i have empowered someone again today. Email:Syrine22rules@gmail.com

Monday 8 April 2013

WHAT IS GIVING AND WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF GIVING TO PEOPLE. I welcome you all to a new week that we hoping would be bringing in good tidings anywhere we would be finding ourselves. Guys i would be talking on a very sensitive topic which is giving. What is giving???, I would clearly be saying giving is when we lease out something that wouldn't want to give on a normal day or better still i would be saying giving is when we give out what we want to someone who needs it at that moment than we do. I Would be listing out the acts of not giving below: 1 GIVING OUT THINGS THAT WE WANT TO DO AWAY WITH There was a woman who had many cloths and when she saw that some weren't beautiful on her again,she wanted to do away with them.My question is, is that giving??guys that ain't a act of giving.It is the same as we doing away with things we dont want again. 2. GIVING TO SHOW OFF Sincerely showing the whole world your act of generosity ain't giving.When you want to give,it is much more better if it is secretive and that is it being between you and the person you leashing the things to. 3. GIVING TO WIN PEOPLE'S HEART So many rich people give nowadays when they are to contest for a position.Must they give at that point??,The answer is a tipical or capital NO.To give just to get something in return is not an act of giving. I would clearly be saying that an open hand would always receive an open blessing.If you are in the postition to help,try and help every human that is in need at every point of time.We should always give with us feeling the pains of letting it out and with time we would be getting it back in hundred folds.I just hope i have empowered you again as a youth. EMAIL:Syrine22rules@gmail.com

Saturday 6 April 2013

"The SIX KEYS TO SUCCESS" by BRIANG. JETT These keys will not unlock any opportunities of success without first having a strong and unfailingfaith in God or that Being which isgreater than you. Please don't go through life as your "own little god." 1. Attitude Bloom where you are planted. You have a choice to get back up aafter temporary set backs. Attitude is a small thing that makes a big difference! 2. Direction If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there.Write your short term goals downon paper. I have discovered and continue to discover that putting your dreams and goals down on paper lock in or focus your belief that they can be achieved--even if you have to take a course correction in achieving your goals. Success comes in cans,failure comes in can'ts. 3. Values Explore what is important to you. Maybe it is family, friends, your spirituality or working hard at anygiven task. I can assure you that your priorities will change as you grow older. Very important that you value yourself and treat yourself like the valuable gift from God that you are. 4. Interests Birds of a feather flock together. This is to say that if you are hanging around winners or others with a "can do" mind-set, you'll likely adapt to this same kind of thinking. Remember- "SUCCESS LEAVES CLUES! 5. Commitment Feelings may change, commitments do not. "Success is getting up one more time than you fall." I have often wanted to give up, and then I must think to myself about what the consequences of giving up will be.Generally, this is more than enough of a motivation to make us stick to the task at hand even ifwe don't feel like it. When the taskis achieved, Whow!--IT FEELS GREAT! 6. Encouragement Be an encourager and comforter to friends that are feeling discouraged. I promise that you will not regret this as youwill be encouraged by one, if not many, when you are feeling down. Encouragement and love are contagious qualities that can change the minds of the most stubborn and "hard-to-get-al ­ong-with" people you know. I have seen it happen over and over again. Hang tough, press on, & NEVER, EVER, EVER, quit!

Friday 5 April 2013

LIFE IS NOT A RACE, BUT A JOURNEY TO BE SAVORED EACH STEP OF THE WAY.. This is a Creed that everyone should Live by: Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don't set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them life is meaningless. Don't let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future, By living your life one day at a time. Don't give up when you still have something to give nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. Don't be afraid to admit that you are less then perfect. It is a fragile thread that binds each of us to each other. Don't be afraid to encounter risks.It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give love; The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; And the best way to keep love is to give it wings. Don't dismiss your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose. Don't run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been but also where you are going. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.. EMAIL:Syrine22rules@gmail.com

Thursday 4 April 2013

BEEN HELD IN GOD'S HANDS,THE EASIEST WAY TO ACHIEVING SUCCESS. Sincerely to be frank,i would be saying that no worthwhile success could be achieveable outside GOD. I would be starting today's story with the parable of the pencil. PARABLE OF A PENCIL... The Pencil Maker took the pencil aside, just before putting him intothe box."There are 5 things you need to know," he told the pencil,"Before I send you out into the world. Always remember them and never forget, and you will become the best pencil you can be." "One: You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in someone’s hand." "Two: You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, but you'll need it to become a better pencil." "Three: You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make." "Four: The most important part of you will always be what's inside." "And Five: On every surface you are used on, you must leave your mark. No matter what the condition, you must continue to write." The pencil understood and promised to remember, and went into the box with purpose in its heart. Moral of the story:Replacing ­ the place of the pencil with your name always remember them andnever forget, and you will becomethe best person you can be. One: You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in God's hand. And allow other human beings to access you for the many gifts you possess. Two: You will experience a painfulsharpening from time to time, by going through various problems in life, but you'll need it to becomea stronger person. Three: You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make. Four: The most important part of you will always be what's on the inside. (You need to increase that) And Five: On every surface you walk through, you must leave your mark. No matter what the situation, you must continue to doyour duties. Allow this parable on the pencil toencourage you to know that you are a special person and only you can fulfil the purpose to which you were born to accomplish. Never allow yourself to get discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and cannot make a change. If you found this piece helpful, dont be selfish, share it on your timeline for others to see and be blessed..I just hope you have been empowered again. EMAIL:Syrine22rules@gmail.com Lekezy@yahoo.com

Wednesday 3 April 2013

SIX WAYS TO STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF... 1. Know that you are not alone. When we’re doubting ourself and our abilities, it may seem like we’re all alone. It looks like everyone else in the world has it all figured out. Look at them, enjoying success after success. It looks so effortless for everyone else, except for us. Why are we the only ones struggling? Why can’t I seem to make any good decisions in my life? Am I the only one who seems to be screwing up all the time? I’m sure that everyone can relate to those moments. And, that’s the important part to remember – these are all fallacies. No one has everything figured out. We all make mistakes and make poor decisions at various times in our lives. Every human being has moments of doubts and feelings of insecurity. Just knowing that everyone else is scared some of the time and doesn’t know what to do, can make you feel better about your own fears. Unless you can see into the future,you’re just like everyone else. We’re all just trying our best to make the most of our lives. Some days are better than others and some days are worse. Sometimes we feel confident and ready to conquer the world and sometimes we don’t feel like getting out of bed in the morning.Just knowing that other people feel the same doubts as we do helps put it all into perspective. Remember that you are not infallible, and neither is anyone else. 2. Look to your past for accomplishments ­. Writing down a list of your accomplishments ­ or your most proud moments is a great resource to have when you are full of self- doubt. Refer to the list when you are feeling particularly down and need a pick-me-up. Know that if you were able to accomplish something in your life,so you can do it again. Re-read the list when you think that you’ll never get past your feelings of self-doubt. If you did something to be proud of in the past, know that you can do it again in the future . This will boost your confidence and your belief that you are somebodyto be proud of. 3. Let go of your expectations. A lot of self-doubt comes from our expectations of ourselves and of others. If you are expecting everything in your life to go smoothly and not to make any mistakes, well you’ll be in for a rude awakening. When things go differently than what you expected, it can cause you to doubt yourself. When we let go of our expectations, we allow things to happen naturally. You’re separating your feelings of expectations (and possible disappointment) ­ from the actual situation. Let go of your expectation and accept things as they come. Maybe things will turn out to be better than what you expected. 4. Surround yourself with people you love and who love you. Human beings are social creatures. We all crave acceptance, especially by people we love. Ensure that you are around people who unconditionally ­ love you and with whom you love. There’s nothing like being with people who accept you for who you are to build up your confidence. 5. Stop comparing yourself to others. This is another way that feeds into our self- doubt. We look around at others and think that they are better than us. Jane has more Twitter followers as me. John has so many Facebook friends and is so popular. Look at how much Joan is making on her blog and she’s only been writing for four months while I’ve been writing for four years! What’s wrong with me? Just stop it. Stop comparing yourself to other people. No good can come of it. Besides, most of the time it’s an illusion. People only tweet about the good stuff intheir lives. No one wants to tell you that they had another rotten day and that nothing exciting everhappens in their lives. They boost up the one interesting tidbit in their lives in an attempt to make themselves feel better and to make you feel worse about your own life. All those Facebook friends aren’t really friends, either. How close can you be to hundreds (or thousands) of people? Oh, and all that money that Joan said she was making, well she lied. Don’t believe everything people tell you or whatyou read on the Internet. 6. Just Do It. Don’t over-think things. Just Do It. Use this as your mantra every time you areparalyzed with self-doubt. It will get you unstuck and build momentum to keep you moving forward in life. Do your best in each situation, but remember to Just Do It. It doesn’t have to be perfect. No one is perfect all of the time. Get on with life. Stop letting your feelings of self-doubt keep you from enjoying everything that life has to offer. Email:Syrine22rules@gmail.com

Tuesday 2 April 2013

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!!! Have you ever doubted yourself?you got everything to stand and say and am better than the best. There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they would be. That’s when you have to tell yourself that things will get better.There are times when people disappoint you and let you down. But those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself. There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them. Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are. So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilitie­s, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be. Because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you. Keep Believing in Yourself and always say this words 1. I am not a begger but a giver.. 2. I ain't going to take whatsoever comes my way but what i really want. 3. I am not a mistake but a miracle. 4. I am not a trash but i am a treasure. 5. I am a supernatural being. 6. I dont have to beg but i command and make declaration. 7. I am aiming to be the best to beat the rest. 8. I am going above the skies. 9. I would stand up and say i am among the world's greatest. 10. I would never be a loser but a winner at all times. Guys we are more than what we think we are and that is why we must constantly believe in ourselves and stand to say "I GOT WHAT IT TAKES" I Just hope i have empowered you guys again today.GOOD MORNING email: Syrine22@gmail.com

WHAT YOU HAVE ISN'T FOR ONLY YOU.IT IS FOR YOU AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU..(ALWAYS STRETCH OUT AN HELPING HAND) I would be starting today's topic with a saying that says an helping hand would never lack anything good.It shouldn't always be about only you but for people around you.guys i would be starting today's topic with the story of a great man,"ALEXANDER THE GREAT" The last wishes of Alexander the Great: On his death bed, Alexander summoned his generals and told them his 3 ultimate wishes: 1. The best doctors should carry his coffin; 2. The wealth he has accumulated (money, gold, precious stones) should be scattered along the procession to the cemetery, and 3. His hands should be let loose, hanging outside the coffin for all to see. One of his generals who was surprised by these unusual requests asked Alexander to explain. Here is what Alexander the Great had to say: 1. I want the best doctors to carrymy coffin to demonstrate that, in the face of death, even the best doctors in the world have no power to heal. 2. I want the road to be covered withmy treasure so that everybody sees that material wealth acquired on earth, stays on earth. 3. I want my hands to swing in the wind, so that people understand that we come to this world empty handed and we leave this world empty handed after the most precious treasure of all is exhausted, and that is TIME.. I just hope you enjoyed the story and have learnt something.We should at every point of our lives help those that are in need.God put us in that place so that we would be helping others.Sincerely to gather more wealth,we must endeavour to lease little from the ones we have at hand.Guys a cheerful giver would never lack anything good at any point of time. Guys i just hope i have empowered you guys again as a youth. EMAIL:Syrine22@gmail.com

Monday 1 April 2013

YOU GOT WHAT IT TAKES TO SUCCEED IN LIFE It is great that we have kick started the new month.We just hope that it would bring forth good tidings.My first question i would want everyone to ask himself or herself today is,"Do i have what it takes to succeed??",I would be plain to say that until we start to give such a question positive answers,then we wouldn't be achieving whatsoever what we want to achieve in life.I would be listing out the positive things we got to have to succeed and i just hope we all put it in practise. 1. SELF BELIEVE: Until we start to believe in ourselves,then the possibilities of succeeding wouldn't be what we would ever evisage that we can achieve. Every human can do something and that is why no one is an island. If your self believe is strong,then you can go any length to achieve success.Self believe is an helper of destiny.It helps to quicken your steps to achieve greatness 2. BE READY TO FAIL ATIMES No one can get it right at everytime and that we should have at the back of our minds.A true success is achieveable after several failures and until we fail the possibility of succeeding is low.So expect failures atimes. 3.BE A GO GETTER Who is a go getter?? A go getter is one that is ready to sacrifice everything to succeed.You have to be ready to sacrifice your time,money,happiness etc to get whatsoever you want.Successful people today passed through alot of pains but since they knew where they were going and what they want,they had to put in everything to get it at whatsoever cost. 4. SHARE YOUR IDEAS It is widely said that two heads are better than one and what does that mean??It means that the more people we share our ideas with,the more the success opinion we would be getting.We should share our ideas with people that we know have gone far in life and would be of great help to us 5.TRUST IN GOD I would be closing this topic by saying that the fear of GOD is the beginning of wisdom and with GOD we have no impossibilities.We should always put all our trust in him at every point of our lives because he is the only one that can help us get there with ease. I just hope that we would be applying all what i said above so as to have a total splendid month as your empower yourself as a youth. EMAIL:Syrine22@gmail.com